Sekiranya nak jadi baik, kita mengambil keputusan untuk menjadi baik, maka Insyaallah, Allah swt akan hantarkan orang yang baik untuk berkawan dengan kita..
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i've been hearing peeps around me talking bout changing their life to be a better person but looking at what they are doing I dun think they will never change. Am not being judgmental but from my observation, my experience dealing with these kind of peeps...hard for them to change coz of few reasons...
1 @ i can say main reason they will never change is becoz they are still socializing with the same group of friends...dun take it wrongly, i dun mean that u have to leave ur old friends and make new friends if u want t change to be better than before...what i mean here is still be friends with them but keep ur distance coz these peeps will influence u to do things that u did before thus u will never change at all....create close relationship with those who can guide u to be better and keep ur distance from those u will drag u to be like before or even worse....once u r strong enuff to handle them, then only u can hang out with them but still keep it a certain limit....
2) its juz words...juz to comfy peeps around them....it is never comes from their heart they want to really change. nothing else i will elaborate on this matter....maybe it'll be too sensitive to certain peeps....but i believe u know what i mean....
being me, an emphatic type, i always be a place for people to talk bout their probs, stories, opinion and many more...i do enjoy it actually coz from there i can learn a lot about life and peeps around me. latest case, a fren of mine from my school years started to talk bout her personal prob to me...and...and...and when we were in school we never talk actually...but we were reconnected via social network and become quite close...can u guys imagine being in the same school for years (and the most important part..never talk to each other), separated for more than 10 years..but when we "reunited" in the social network...we shared a lot of thing togerher...and i really enjoy every moments of it...thts me...i can easily make friends with anybody...from small kids to the elderly people...love to listen to their stories...their daily schedule, their past and they even share their future plan with me...
i rather say the emphatic part of me is a gift...not only me but my siblings also have the same specialty...am proud of it bcoz not all can have this special characteristic in their selves...always there for peeps who needs my ears and shoulder to cry on...(wahh...sastera giler statement!) i really dun care even the person did hurt me before...for me being empathy is sumthing that i enjoy to do...and whatever stories they shared, when am alone esp before closing my eyes to end the day...i do some thinking...what the thing happen to them, why do they have to face that kind of things, and all sorts of question..in the end..i make a resolution that everybody will have their own life and probs along the way...and through those experiences peeps build their life....only 2 choices : being better person or being total jerk...it their choice. for me as long as they are my friend, even though they might hate me but it is my responsibility to open up their eyes and mind to see life in more positive way.....
now i remembered why am i so like enthusiast to update my humble blog....i watched some vlog a few minutes ago...looking at the vloggers...feels like wanna try to do it also but i dun think i can..am more to writing type of person to express what i feel than doing in in physical form....hmm...i should stick to normal blog...no way to vlogging...
my novel has been pending for quite sumtime...am stuck at the part where Achik has entered the plot...damn! need to finish it fast dude....too long pending..maybe when its finish....i will not be around anymore.....
i love to write, i love to read.....thts me...ans thts how i learn a lot of things...
so long peeps...nite2...
i luv u syg.....:)
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